“I have no hate for any man that is on the same journey as me.”
~Conor McGregor
No matter what path life brings us down, we will find ourselves amongst others traveling on a similar road. As with all avenues, life’s thoroughfare does not come without divots and imperfections. One of the many roadblocks of life comes in the form of envy. Whether it be at the workplace, among friends, at school, or somewhere else, we will find envy in some way, shape, or form.
So the question is: Why are people envious? The simple answer: Because it is human nature. It is in our blood.
While we should understand that no one is perfect, we all can strive to be the best version of ourselves; not just in our actions of glory, wealth increase, or status improvement, but in our actions towards other individuals. By helping others we help ourselves develop in maturity, humility, and wisdom.
Remember, friendly competition is not always bad, but sabotaging another human being for personal gain is. So the next time you see success from another person on the same road as you, applaud, be happy, be joyful, and work so you may gain that triumph for yourself one day. Don’t shy away from competition due to unfounded insecurities. Instead, plod forward. Doubt is removed by action.
Now in my parting words I would like to extend a hand and invite you on this journey of self development. While we may never be perfect, we can endeavor towards that goal everyday. Be hungry, be helpful, be humble.
Grace and peace to you,
Seneca Esai